Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get o

heconstantly says that im just going to leave him when i finish school, accuses me of looking at other men when were in public, he also constantly critisize's me tells me how i should do EVERYTHING, we both have a son from a previous relationships, hes great with my son and his son. he isnt at all physical with me. i wish he could stop. and when i start to cry about what he does to me he just acts like what he is doing is normal and that im weird for crying! why is he like this he wasnt like this the first yr

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hes very passive aggressive, he'll accuse me of things im not doing until i blow up screaming then he acts like im the crazy one, i know hor sure he wont hit me , hes extremely relaxed he does this all while calm cool and collected, the weird thing is he always tells me im beautiful why would i choose him. that im going to leave him that if im going to leave to tell him now, im going to leave not because im to pretty but because i cant take it being accused of crap im not doing

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Unless he gets some professional help, get rid of him or be prepared to live the rest of your life that way. No one deserves that kind of treatment! Making you feel like the problem is all yours is HIGHLY abusive, but characteristic.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Get out of that relationship. Don't walk - Run.

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Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Nobody deserves to be treated the way you are , it looks like he has insecurities of his own , its definately NOT your fault ! get out of there as soon as you can !

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

It's only going to get worse. Just because someone is a good father doesn't mean they can be a good bf or husband. My dad was a great father, but he treated my mother like crap for 20 years. Get out! Emotional abuse often leads to physical abuse. You local women's center can help you with support if you need it (which most women do!)

Good luck to you!

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Um, break up with him.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

His behavior is not going to get better, it will only get worse. He needs therapy, and I doubt he will admit to it. Get out, and get out quickly, don't talk to him about it, just pack your stuff, your kid, and get out now.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

get out now. the boy is out of it. no one needs to be treated like that.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Reinstate your myspace and delete the boyfriend. HIs behaviour is HIS problem, not yours. Nothing you do or don't do will change him or his behaviour.

You deserve better. And you don't want your son to grow up with him as a role model on how to treat women.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

This type of behavior something that is commonly seen in abusive relationships. The problem is abusive relationships often end in tragedy.

Abusive people need to feel like they are in control. If you finish school he will feel that he has lost control. He probably does not let you go out with your friends as well and does not leave you alone in a crowd.

Often times abusers behavior escelates over time. He may not be hitting you now but he will if given time. After he does he will be very repentant and you will forgive him and this whole cycle WILL happen again and again until it ends in serious injury or death or you get out of this (I won't even call it a relationship it's a dysfunction).

This will be the hardest thing you can do but think about the welfare of your child.

Seek help and support from your local woman's shelter they are experts in this area and can provide you and your child a place to go to be out of danger.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

Marie,

This is not healthy. Whether he uses words or actions, he is a bully. He does not seem to grasp simple concepts such as respect, compromise, and understanding which are central to a healthy relationship.

By continuing with your present situation, in his mind, you are giving this bully tacit approval to carry on as usual. As you put it, he has no reason to believe what he is doing is wrong. He has no incentive to change. I doubt that he can.

Please listen to all the female posters who have preceded me. They know, they have friends and family members who have gone through it and they have seen the aftermath.

Please take care of yourself. Only you can be your own best advocate.

Sincerely,

Alan K.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

if the bad outweigh the good = LEAVE.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

you should tell him that if he really trusts you, he'll stop doing what he usually does.

Emotionally Controlling??????. My boyfriend made me delete my myspace, im not even supposed to get on answers!

u need to get out and now. u cant go on myspace or answers. why not your parents can tell u not to go on here but not your bf he is not worth it. he is tellin u u are pretty and stuff cause he wants u to stick around. If he hasnt hit u its possible that he sure could.